The makers of Trojan™ Lubricants in collaboration with YourTango released a national survey today, examining the sex lives of American parents. The survey uncovered 78 percent of parents report diminished sex lives after having children. The good news is that sex and pleasure are still a priority to most parents, with 40 percent of parents saying that if they had an extra hour in their day they would spend it having sex with their partner.
In
an effort to help parents bring the pleasure back into their
relationships, the makers of Trojan™ Lubricants partnered with YourTango
to tap the real experts
– parents – to share their stories, experiences and tips on making the
most of limited alone time.
"As
a mom I know that between work and kids, finding alone time with your
partner can be a challenge to say the least," said Logan Levkoff, Sexual
Health Educator,
Member of the Trojan™ Sexual Health Advisory Council and mom of two.
"Happy parents equal happy children, and intimacy plays an important
role in keeping couples connected. After children, many couples become
better communicators, which makes it easier to
be open about your wants and needs, whether it's incorporating Trojan™
Lubricants or experimenting with a fantasy."
While
today's parents say the reasons for a diminished sex life are busy
schedules (27 percent), the need for extra sleep (25 percent), and
children always being
around (21 percent), they are still finding ways to get creative and
make pleasure a priority. Top tips from the parent experts include:
- Make pleasure-enhancing products a mainstay in the bedroom: 68% of parents turn to lubricants and nearly 58% turn to vibrators to help set the mood and achieve the big "O". Fortunately the makers of Trojan™ offer a full line of lubricants and vibrators to help parents spice things up and increase the pleasure.
- Of those who haven't yet explored the pleasure aisles of their local retailer, 71 percent are interested in trying products to enhance pleasure and maximize the little alone time they have.
- Create a sexy secret language: Parents have taken to using code words to build anticipation for their bedtime activities. "Back rubs" and "business meetings" have taken on a whole new meaning!
- Plan a "sex-it" strategy: While more than 41 percent of parents say they need to be more flexible and spontaneous with their sex lives now that they're parents, it's important to schedule time away from your kids. Plan a play date for you and your partner alone, giving you more time to reconnect.
- Sexting: More than half of parents have sent steamy photos or texts to each other. Creating a sense of excitement and anticipation throughout the day can be a great way to start foreplay hours before you make it to the bedroom.
- Open the lines of communication: The survey showed a direct correlation between the level of open, honest communication and the level of sexual satisfaction that parents experience, with 40 percent of parents being more comfortable expressing their wants and needs post children.
"The
survey made it clear that parents are striving to maintain that passion
by trying new things in the bedroom," said Bruce Weiss, Vice President
of Marketing
for Trojan™ Sexual Health products. "They're looking for products that
make the most of their alone time and Trojan™ is answering that call
with our new line of Lubricants."
The
makers of Trojan™ Lubricants are committed to providing the tools
everyone needs to experience pleasure – this includes parents too.
- Arouses & Releases
Trojan™ Arouses & Releases™ Lubricant takes you to the edge and beyond for a whole new kind of orgasmic experience. - Simply Pleasure
Trojan™ Simply Pleasure™ Lubricant keeps it simple and sexy, blended with just two ingredients, it's preservative-free and skin friendly. - Arouses & Intensifies
Trojan™ Arouses & Intensifies Lubricant is perfect for foreplay massage or manual clitoral stimulation to help enhance sensations during intercourse and take passion to new heights. - Continuous Silkiness
Trojan™ Continuous Silkiness Lubricant is deeply sensual and wonderfully silky, offering a thrilling, natural feeling. This smooth, silky pleasure will take couple's intimacy to a new level.
Experience the newest Trojan™ product innovations for the bedroom at www.TrojanLubricants.com or
find the perfect product for you at your local retailer.
One lucky winner is going to receive a pleasure pack to provide them with the tools they need to experience the ultimate pleasure when they finally find some alone time. To enter, just fill out the Giveaway Tools form below. This giveaway will end 7/20/14 and is open to the US only. The winner will be notified via email and will have 48 hours to reply. Thanks again to the sponsor for offering this fantastic prize.
***No compensation received. Information was provided by the company or their representative.***
27 comments:
We use the terms TLC and fun times.
We say things like "having fun" or "adult time"
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I'm not sure where we picked it up, maybe a tv show but weve always called it "doing laundry". Lol
We say that is is our date night
We say time alone with daddy but our kids picked up the truth real quick.
We used to call it "alone time" until our oldest pointed out if we're together we're not alone.
My children are adults, there are no codes. I don't recall that there were any when they were young? We did not discuss our sexual encounters in front of the kids, so there was no need to use special words. When we did discuss sex as a concept, we called it sex.
I dont know, I dont have kids so I am not sure what I'd say
Let's get busy. We say say that to each other.
Monkey time. Don't judge.
We don't have human children and our furry children don't care as far as I know.
I just loosely use the term "spend time with." I wonder what my eight year old thinks when one of us responds we are too tired or don't really feel like "spending time with" the other.... :/
We say it's cuddle time.
We usually just whisper or mouth something. Sometimes we might say cuddle. Unfortunately with a 12,3,and 1 year old in our small nyc apartment there is not a lot of talk about sexy time :(
We do not really have a code--it is a look I would guess;)
We usually use "snuggle time" as our sexy time code word ;)
We don't really have a code. We just tell the kids it's time for bed and that's that.
I don't have any kids so I don't have a code.
We usually use the term cuddle time!
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My kids are all grown and I honestly dont't remember what terms we used, probably something like alone time or resting.
taking a nap.
alone time.
I guess we use the word "lovin'" to say in front of the kids.
We usually say "Alone Time" or "Taking a Nap".
Lmao...we don't use words. We have an "always ready" agreement. We are both always ready, so if we have a chance, we are taking it, no need to ask or discuss.
My daughter is a little too young to understand so we still just call it sex. I haven't thought about calling it anything else! But we will probably be like another commenter and say "alone time."
We call it Mommy and Daddy time.
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